- Me: I stare at an ask for like five minutes before I decide whether or not I'm going to send it.
- Ani: Yeah, me too.
- Me: I don't know whether or not I should add something.
- Ani: It's better to keep it short so it leaves it open for more conversation later. When I really think a person is cool and I want to be friends with them I just kind of ease into the conversation, like I just casually drop an ask but actually I'VE BEEN PLOTTING IT FOR DAYS
